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Integrity Matters - A Painful Lesson

My youth was full of pranks. I was pranking almost every single person that I know at that time and even my dad started to call me useless and unworthy. At that time I never knew how it would affect me but all I know now is that I'm still paying for it.

I was pranking everyone because school was boring for me and I needed fun. I was reading a lot of personal development books instead of school books but I was not sharing my knowledge with my peers because I know that it would contradict with their beliefs so to make sure I will have friends I opt for pranking others and create a fun environment.

I would tell crazy lies like I was adopted and you name it. It really hit me hard when I left school and met my friends years later. I was a changed person as I inclined more towards spiritualism  after my father passed away so, I began to live a honest and simple life. None of my friends were able to believe a single word that I utter because of my pranking history.

That was painful and I can boldly say that I was a good prankster as they still don't believe me even after decades.

The joy that you create out of lie will bring sorrow sooner or later.

Truth matters and the journey that I'm on now is so beautiful and I love the joy that it brings despite the fact that I have to tell the truth that might hurt some.

My brother always said this to me. Tell the truth and defend it instead of telling a lie and hiding from it. Thank you brother.

Integrity Matters.

Think Small
T. Mohanadasan

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