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If You Don't Know What You Want Then Do This

One of the hardest point in my life was to find out what I really wanted. You can call that a goal, purpose or a milestone to be reached but I am talking about identity crisis here.

When you are following a mentor you are becoming more like them in your shades and at one point you will realize that you can fulfill your potential further than that. 

You have your own and unique potential and to discover that, you need to embark on a self discovery journey. That journey might take decades because you must try a lot and find out what works for you. Sometimes, it won't be just one calling for all. There might be a few in a row.

To cut it short there's a simple way to find out what you want if you don't know what you really want. We have to go the opposite way and find out what you don't want.

Choose someone that you know and you don't like. List down every single details on why you don't like that person. Write as many as you can until you run out of ideas. Now the most important part is you must list down the opposite traits of everything you listed about that person.

Congratulations, now you have discovered an image of how you want to be perceived by yourself and others. If one person is not sufficient, you can try a few.

Go rock.

Think Small
T. Mohanadasan

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